What I offer

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Put simply: I offer you the opportunity to engage in a conversation with me.

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I offer you the space for a conversation in which everything can be questioned, everything can be said, in which every thought and feeling is allowed to be. After all, how can you come to the truth, or to yourself, if not out of freedom...

I offer you a space in which you can expose yourself to this freedom, while not being alone doing so.

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I will accompany you on this journey to yourself. With my perceptions, my experience, my thoughts, but above all with my undivided attention. Let's see what happens then. Perhaps we will reflect together, perhaps we will put your convictions to the test, perhaps I will provoke you, encourage you or we will just sit in silence and feel whatever there is. We will see. I am looking forward to it.

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I deliberately do not use any methods. I am convinced that methods are nonsense.
Methods are supposed to give us a sense of security. But that's exactly what separates us from real life. The method mediates, it prevents the direct encounter. All real life is encounter. All real life is uncertain, spontaneous, and unique. That's the exciting thing about it. That's what makes it worth living. You don't want to control yourself all day long, nor do I want to do that in my life. The whole thing becomes interesting when we give up our predetermined patterns and throw ourselves, full of curiosity, into the unknown, into the chaos that is called life. It becomes interesting when we LIVE when we meet each other as we are. Maybe it won't turn out to be so chaotic and dangerous after all. Maybe it does. Who knows without trying...

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I'm not interested in diagnoses, elaborate theories, or social labels. I am interested in myself. And I'm interested in you. As a person. I'm interested in you getting closer to yourself, learning to love yourself, allowing yourself to be yourself, and shaping your life according to your needs.

I am interested in myself and my life, just as you are interested in yourself and your life. And that's what it's all about. That's why I will simply bring myself to our conversations so that you need to bring nothing but yourself.

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Am I the right person for you? - I do not know.

But you do. Or at least you feel it. Either when you read my texts or when we get to know each other. You decide which topics you want to bring to our meetings and how long you want my support. You decide whether you want to talk about the doubts concerning your relationship, the topic for your final thesis, whether you are longing for support in a difficult phase of your life, or whether you simply want to find out who you really are. You decide what you want to talk about. It's that simple.

 

The conversation can take place at a location of your choice, during a walk in nature, or in my coaching room.

I want to give everyone (including teenagers and students), regardless of their income, the opportunity to have a conversation with me. Thus the talks are free of charge.

The sessions will last between 45 and 90 minutes. We will figure this out together along the way.

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If you are interested in meeting up with me, please send me an e-mail (preferably with your telephone number) to:
ben.schult@posteo.de

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We will discuss everything else then.

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I look forward to meeting you.

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Yours sincerely,
Benjamin Schult